Blaming Others for Our Own Woes.... From the time that we're children, we're taught that there are certain behaviors that are important to our growth as small human beings. Whether from our parents, our family members or our friends, we are constantly being taught lessons that help us to become better people. - Don't lie. - Share with others. - Always be polite and respectful. - Take responsibility for your own actions. The lies were always the easiest to get caught doing.